I don't do resolutions for the New Year because I tend to be a "year round" goal setter and practitioner . I'd say it probably comes from my years as a therapist and coach; it's sort of inherent to the work. Some goals are ongoing (like exercise, diet, etc.) some tend to be new (like taking a class or traveling) and some take more effort than others because they push me beyond my comfort edge.
In December I began to revisit some of the teachings I received from one of my most beloved teachers, Craig Hamilton. I am carrying this goal into 2015. Craig's deep understanding of development, evolution and humanity not only resonates with my own understanding, it pushes me forward with loving kindness. His teachings also remind me that the "We" is greater than the "me" and that the "me" must still be given attention.
As someone who has been an undisciplined mindful meditator for years, Craig's meditation template has taken me deeper, moved me beyond myself and allowed me to better connect with my fellow human beings (and myself) with more loving-kindness. So I'm upping my meditation and contemplation practice - yet again.
I would like to share with you a piece of Craig's teaching regarding "challenges" that I hope you find beneficial. When I choose to pay attention and not get mindlessly caught up in an emotionally charged situation, this way of responding always brings about the best solution.
Wishing you nothing but the best in 2015,
John
Craig Hamilton on Challenges:
When you encounter a challenging and emotionally charged situation in your life, before you respond, take a few minutes to ask yourself:
- What is the most enlightened or evolved response I could have in this situation?
- Why is it important for my own evolution for me to respond in the most enlightened, evolved way I can?
- Why does God/evolution/humanity (your choice) need me to respond in the most enlightened, evolved way I can?
Ground yourself in an intention to show up as an exemplar of humanity's potential. And then respond from this deeper intention.
Notice how your perspective on the situation and your ability to meet it changes when you approach it in this way.
There is deep and powerful work that can be done to cultivate this perspective, to truly ground your life in this way of seeing--and even more importantly, acting.
Allow yourself to feel into the larger significance of your response to this challenging moment.
